3 Things That Can Save You When Talking To Your Girlfriend
There are 3 Things That Can Save You When Talking to a girl, especially when you’re seeing a pretty girl who is shy or doesn’t talk much. You’ve already talked about your hobbies, families, and jobs. You can’t think of anything else to talk about, and she’s not really helping (at least that’s what you believe).
Starting with small talk is one of the best ways to have a good, healthy conversation with your girlfriend. Small talk will give you a general idea of what she likes and dislikes and what she wants to talk about and what she wants to leave alone.
Once you have a general idea from small talk, you can talk about what you both like and dislike.
3 Things That Can Save You When Talking To Your Girlfriend
But the things that really scare you are those quiet moments. Uh… terrible times. How to avoid or get through these terrible times is to:
1. Appreciate her
Most people are shy when they meet new people. I used to be a very shy person. But when you really think about it, shyness is just a fear that other people won’t like you or that you might be rejected in some way.
It’s natural to want to be liked. So try to make her know that you like her by making a compliment. But find something about her lifestyle or personality that really appeals to you.
She will feel better about herself and more willing to talk about what she believes, and her shyness won’t get in the way of a good conversation.
2. Asking open questions
How you ask questions is a key part of laying the groundwork for good communication. When you ask good questions, you can learn and understand more. The art of asking questions is knowing when and what questions to ask.
My favourite questions are “why” and “how” questions. You can use these a lot without getting old. She will know that you are interested in what she is saying, and her answers will get better.
So, think carefully before you say something or bring up a subject that she might find offensive.
3. Listen, listen, and listen.
Usually, when a woman starts talking about her favorite topics (like feelings, family, relationships, friends, and her job), many men lose interest or bring the conversation back to themselves.
This is a huge mistake that men make all the time.
They also like to tell each other jokes and stories and spend a lot of time trying to one-up each other and bragging. Don’t do that anymore!!
Let her have her own ideas while you have yours. Men have felt like they either had to give up their own beliefs to try to get a woman or fight with women about what they believe in. Both ways end up in failure.
She’s not there just to hear about your “hero qualities,” but to have a good time with you..
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